In a Hadith from Abu Dawud number 2130, The Prophet (pbuh) congratulated a man on his marriage, he said: May Allah bless for you, and may He bless on you, and combine both of you in good (works).
Transliteration For Arabic Dua: baa-rakal laahu la-kum, wa baa-raka ‛alay-kum, wa jama‛a ba-yna-kumaa fee khayr
Translation: May Allah bless for you your spouse, and bless you, and may He unite both of you in goodness.
According to another narrated that Al-Hasan said: “Aqil bin Abi Talib married a woman from Banu Jusham, and it was said to him: ‘May you live in harmony and have many sons.’ He said: ‘Say what the Messenger of Allah said: Barak Allahu fikum, wa baraka lakum. Grade : Hasan (Darussalam) Reference : Sunan an-Nasa’i 3371 In-book reference : Book 26, Hadith 176
Advice For a Happy Marriage
Religion should be the focus of all things. It is is the key to Jannah. Therefore your lifelong companion should reflect this choice. By surrounding yourself with a good pious Muslim partner you are likely benefit from their positive character. Marry bad and you will reap bad.
“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.” (Qur’an: Chapter 30, Verse 21)
Narrated Abu Hurairah:It was narrated from Abu Hurairah that the Prophet said: “Women are married for four things: their wealth, their nobility, their beauty and their religious commitment. Choose the one who is religiously committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust.” Grade : Hasan (Darussalam) Reference: Sunan an-Nasa’i 3371 In-book reference : Book 26, Hadith 176
The best of you are the best to their families, and I am the best to my family. Source: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 3895, Grade: Sahih
Allah, let our marriage be a way for us and our families to enter Jannah.
Allah, protect our marriage from the whispering of Shaytaan.
Allah, give us the strength to live together in justice, equity, love and mercy.
Allah, let our marriage bring untold blessings to us individually, to our families and our children.
Allah, bless us with healthy children who will be a source of great joy and happiness.
Allah, give us the love which you had blessed Muhammad (Sallalahu Alaihi Wassallam) with Khadija (R.A)
Aameen Ya Rabb