Ala-Maududi
(60:4) You have a good example in Abraham and his companions: they said to their people: “We
totally dissociate ourselves from you, and from the deities that you worship instead of Allah.
We renounce you[6] and there has come to be enmity and hatred between us and you
until you believe in Allah, the One True God.” (But you may not emulate) Abraham’s saying to his
father: “Certainly I will ask pardon for you, although I have no power over Allah to obtain
anything on your behalf.”[7] (And Abraham and his companions prayed): “Our Lord, in
You have we put our trust, and to You have we turned, and to You is our ultimate return.
6. That is, we reject you. We neither consider you to be inthe right nor your religion. The
inevitable demand of thefaith in Allah is denial of taghut (Satan): Whoever rejectstaghut and
believes in Allah has taken a firm support thatnever gives way. (Surah Al-Baqarah, Ayat 256).
7. In other words, it means: Though there is an excellent example for you in Abraham’s (peace be
upon him) conduct in that he expressed disapproval of his pagan people and broke off all
connections with them, yet his promise to pray for the forgiveness of his pagan father and then
carrying it out practically is not worth following, for the believers should not have even this
much relationship of love and sympathy with the disbelievers. In (Surah At-Taubah, Ayat 113), Allah has
clearly warned: It does not behoove the Prophet (peace be upon him) and those who have believed
that they should pray for the forgiveness of the polytheists even though they be near kinsmen.
Thus, no Muslim is allowed to pray for the forgiveness of his unbelieving kinsmen on the basis
of the argument that the Prophet Abraham (peace be upon him) had done so. As for the question,
why did the Prophet Abraham (peace be upon him) pray thus, and did he carry out his promise
practically. The answer has been provided by the Quran in full detail. When his father expelled
him from the house, he had said on his departure: I bid you farewell: I will pray to my Lord for
your forgiveness.(Surah Maryam, Ayat
47). On the basis of this very promise he prayed for him twice. One prayer is contained
in (Surah Ibrahim, Ayat 41): Lord,
forgive me and my parents and the believers on the Day when reckoning will be hold. And the
second prayer is in (Surah Ash Shuara, Ayat
86): Forgive my father, for indeed he is from among those who have strayed and do not
disgrace me on the Day when the people will be raised back to life. But afterwards when he
realized that the father for whose forgiveness he was praying, wan an enemy of Allah, he excused
himself from it and broke off even this relationship of love and sympathy with him.
As regards to the prayer of Abraham for his father, it was only to fulfill a promise he bad made
to him, but when he realized that he was an enemy of Allah, he disowned him. The fact is that
Abraham was a tender-hearted, God fearing and forbearing man. (Surah At-Taubah, Ayat 114).
A study of these verses makes the principle manifest that only that act of the prophet is worthy
of following, which they persistently practiced till the end. As regards to those acts which
they themselves gave up or which Allah restrained them from practicing or which were forbidden
in the divine Shariah, they are not worth following, and no one showed follow such acts of
theirs on the basis of the argument that that was such and such a prophet’s practice.
Here also another question arises which may create confusion in some minds. In the verse under
discussion, the saying of the Abraham (peace be upon him), which Allah has declared as not worth
following, has two parts. The first part is that he said to his father: I will pray for your
forgiveness, and the second: I have no power to get anything for you from Allah. Of these the
first thing of not being a worthy examples to be followed is understandable, but, what is wrong
with the second thing that that too has been made an exception from being an example worthily of
imitation, whereas it by itself is a truth? The answer is that the saying of the Abraham (peace
be upon him) has been included in the exception for the reason that when a person after making a
promise with another to do something, says that it is not in his power to do anything beyond
that for him, it automatically gives the meaning that if it were in his power to do anything
further for him, he would have done that too for his sake. This makes his relationship of
sympathy with the other person even more manifest. On that very basis this second part of the
saying of the Prophet Abraham (peace be upon him) also deserved to be included in the exception,
although its subject was true in so far as it does not lie even in the power of a Prophet to
have a person forgiven by Allah. Allama Alusi in his Ruhal-Maani has also given this same answer
to this question.